Strategies for Those Grieving During the Holidays offers suggestions and insights for all coping with loss, not only from the death of loved ones but also from unfulfilled dreams, health challenges, missed opportunities, etc.
Guest Krista St-Germain, a grief expert, highlights the differences between depression (a broader, general sadness) and grief (which is more specific to the loss itself). She emphasizes that grief can stem from any perceived loss, not just death, and suggests that holidays, often associated with idealized family gatherings, can amplify these feelings when someone is missing or things have changed.
Krista encourages listeners to communicate their needs clearly during the holiday season. If someone is grieving, they may not want the typical festive activities, but they should be able to express their preferences—whether they need solitude or companionship. The episode also touches on the importance of setting boundaries, even if it disappoints others.
Krista introduces a technique called “NOW” (Name, Open, Witness) to help process emotions by naming them, opening up to them, and witnessing their physical sensations, helping people cope with intense feelings.
The hosts reflect on the significance of giving oneself permission to feel and accept disappointment, both from oneself and others. They discuss the value of honoring one’s emotions and boundaries during the holidays and the challenges of dealing with external expectations. The episode provides helpful advice for those navigating grief or depression during a time when societal pressure for happiness can make emotional struggles feel even more intense.
